Snake Hips, Red City Kiss

and besides, you can't believe without bleeding

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My happiness level cannot be contained right now because Brad is the most amazing person ever and he surprised me with the cutest apartment today and in 2 and a half months I’ll be living in OKC with him and Porthos and Oliver and I just don’t even know what to do with myself

But I do know that I am the luckiest because even though I whine and complain and I’m probably the worst 90% of the time, Brad still wants to share his life with me and I couldn’t ask for anything more than that. I’m really just the happiest.

Filed under sorry i'm not sorry for the run on sentences okc

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bradfjords:

Please keep the residents of Moore, OK in your thoughts. I’ve never seen destruction like that in my 25 years of living in Oklahoma. They are saying it is “the most devastating tornado in history.” 
You can donate to the Red Cross HERE.
Blood and donations move faster than prayers. 

bradfjords:

Please keep the residents of Moore, OK in your thoughts. I’ve never seen destruction like that in my 25 years of living in Oklahoma. They are saying it is “the most devastating tornado in history.” 

You can donate to the Red Cross HERE.

Blood and donations move faster than prayers. 

Filed under my heart is in oklahoma

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This morning one of the guys at work told me that he “really liked that shirt on me” while staring directly at my chest and then looked at another guy and said “Come on, don’t you like that shirt on her?” and I lost my shit on him

I have no problem calling people out on their rude/inappropriate comments, which is good because it’s something that I find myself doing a lot there. I guess because it’s such a laid back office, people tend to forget that there are some things you don’t say when you’re at work (or ever because it’s just rude). I’m always the one pointing out how the racist/sexist jokes that people make are FAR from funny, which apparently makes me the “sensitive” one… But I guess that’s true because after it was said and done, instead of walking into my bosses office and telling him what happened, I felt bad. I didn’t want to start any problems or have someone else defend me. So I left it. I called him out on it, he apologized. whatever.

I’m not sure what the point of this post is, other than to just say Fuck. That. Guy. When someone disrespects you, and then apologizes because it was a “joke” you don’t have to accept it and you shouldn’t accept it. I might not have been the one to say something to my boss about it (another lady in the office did), but I should have because I had nothing to feel bad about. A grown fucking man should know how to act and know how to treat a woman with respect, and if they don’t then they should be the ones who feel bad about it.

Filed under have i mentioned that i can't wait to leave this job?